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Tadi pagi baca surat Khabar secara online, ada berita pasal Halimaton Abd Rashid yang baru berusia 15 tahun (ye dia seorang penuntut tingKatan 3) tapi da mau berKahwin..belum bace lagi artikel tu? KliK sini...
I'm seriously not against early marriage but God, she's only 15!!!
what did she know about marriage, the duties and all other things that made even the adults avoided commitment??? Not to mentioned, sadly, even some of the marriages failed, splitting many families apart. But this girl, who insisting to get married with a guy that's only 19 years old who I'm not sure what did he do for his OWN life expenses did not even think about her mother. From my reading, I think he's still staying with his family
(dunno whether he works or what but I think yes).
Not only that the girl was ridiculous, it seems likely she's so rude to her mother. Astaghfirullah, forgive me for saying her like this but I think whatever the mother said must be obeyed. But this girl, stubbornly, ran away from home, neglect her family members, discard her precious mother's feeling only for a boy... Still, what the hell did she thinks???
Me, at 15 years old, was busy and really worried thinking about PMR...Siap demam exam lagi sampai Kne injection. Huh..
After the negotiation that took place at the Ketua Pemuda Umno's house at Langkawi, Halimaton's mother agreed to let the youngsters to get married. I'm very touched with her mother's speech. I don't know what made Halimaton's heart as cold as the ice, no make it glacier or as hard as graphite with the diamond lattice structure.
Normah ketika ditemui semalam, turut berpesan kepada bakal menantunya itu supaya menunaikan janjinya iaitu membenarkan Halimaton, antara pelajar terbaik UPSR Kedah 2007, terus bersekolah walaupun sudah bergelar isterinya.
“Saya juga mahu Halimaton ingat ketika saya mendukungnya ketika kecil dan membawanya ke kebun getah ketika saya menoreh... dialah harapan untuk mengubah nasib keluarga kami dan saya tidak mahu hasrat itu terbantut,” katanya. (Harian Metro, 2 April 2010)
Allah, her mother's hope for her is very high... How can she did not realized it? What went wrong when her mother raised her? Is it even her mother's fault? I kept on thinking, if a person failed to be 'human' what went wrong? Family? The individual itself? Surrounding? Society? Israel (tbe2 jek)?
The gists of my bebelan here are,
- How will the Muslim society especially in Msia ni nak merubah dunia yang kejam, bila kata2 ibu pun dengan sesedap rasa dilawan, ilmu pun tak dituntut, hati diturut..
- Adakah orang sedar yang jika kes seperti Halimaton ni bertambah, hilanglah bakal peneraju negara, hilanglah penegak agama, hilanglah bangsa. Masakan Halimaton begitu matang untuk mengurus 'rumahtangga' yang bakal ditempuhi hingga anak- anaknya kelak mampu menjadi seperti yang diinginkan?
- "What goes around, comes around" and " You reap what you sow".I thought these words should always be bear in our mind. I'm sure all of you get what I mean by these words.
Lastly, I hope by any chance the girl got married, she can lead her life to the fullest and will kept her promise to her mother.I'm sure if she's really resistant to make her wedding come true, then she must fight to make it last too.. We, as the society nevertheless not only blame Halimaton, it's her life anyway, we need to take this story as a lesson. Stories like this will make us more mature, rational and it is what we called life lesson...
Peh siyes gile ayat2 daku...
notabuku: maaf atas segala keterlanjuran kata2... (-_-)